I'm 21 and seriously at this age i was going through a "midlife crisis" . There was a time when i thought, "Everything just seems finish to me , I don't like hanging out with friends Oh Hell i don't have any friends left in my circle . I don't like talking to anyone , I don't want to eat sweet dishes , My degree duration increased from 4 to 6 years . All my batch mates are way ahead than me , I'm a failure . Hell yeah ! Life Sucks...
It was almost a year back & seriously now when i think about my past thoughts i laugh at myself . I've changed my life and it is much much better now . Okay! now the question is : HOW? Well the answer was always there with me actually within me . I scheduled my life , Yes! it was absolutely tricky at the start but the results are always good when you work hard .
I added few habits to my daily routine . I started writing a daily journal I know it is for nerds but it is helpful . When i read what mistakes I've done in past days i try not to repeat it . It is a good thing as "The past is the best teacher" . I started praying and believe me the pleasure and relief you get by praying or even just by sitting in a cool place like mosque is extra-ordinary . I started exercise not Yoga , But jogging in the morning after fajr time and that really helped me a lot . Once you do all these three stuff you'll feel better but to feel even more better start getting social and increase your interaction with new people , Amazing stuff to learn from strangers (Good , Bad & Awesome!!) And not only stranger interaction will help but happy and good interaction with your own family and friends (If you have) will change your mood . Yeah seriously hang out with your friends!
Now if anyone of you people are going through "Midlife Crisis" Or Stuff like that :P , Then try to do what I did and don't forget to give me your feedback !! :D
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